Table
of Contents
Introduction.............................................................Pg.
5
- Having Joy in All Circumstances......................Pg. 6
- Do Not Envy.....................................................Pg. 12
- Be Content.......................................................Pg. 17
- Hospitality? Me? Why?....................................Pg. 23
- Humor on the Farm..........................................Pg. 29
- Don't Forget Your Husband..............................Pg. 34
- You Are Not Unworthy......................................Pg. 40
- Is There No Peace?............................................Pg. 46
- Don't Forget Your Children Either.....................Pg. 51
- You Want Me To Do What?............................... Pg. 57
- Anger................................................................. Pg. 62
- Should I Be Superwoman?.................................Pg. 68
- Do You Wear Pumps on the Farm?.....................Pg. 74
- Loneliness...........................................................Pg. 80
- My Convictions/Your Convictions......................Pg. 86
Introduction
Homesteading
is not for the faint of heart, nor is it easy. What some think of as
a dreamy way of life, is actually a hard life in reality. The
rewards far outweigh the hardships, but sometimes we, ladies, can
struggle with many negative thoughts and actions on the farm.
We
have different struggles than most wives and mothers. The best of
people could never fully understand what we go through physically and
emotionally, unless they jump on board this sometimes crazy boat!
Listening
to others' struggles made me realize how hard it is to relate to the
'normal' people at times. Homesteading is a huge challenge, and if
we aren't careful, we could fall into a bad trap that could ruin our
adventure.
I
am a work in progress. Here on the farm, I have learned so many
valuable lessons. Lessons that God orchestrated for me. I'm sure I
missed the opportunity to learn all of what He has rolled out for me,
but I have found some biblical truths on the farm that I can't help
but share to other women who have the same struggles.
I
also wrote this book as a constant reminder for myself. It is a
continual molding process, which, I think at times that God's hands
must get pretty tired with me!
Ever
feel like you can't measure up to other women because of the dirty
jobs we have to do on the farm?
Is
envy eating away at you and you are desiring to be 'normal?'
Are
you struggling with being a little too judgmental towards those who
aren't as like-minded as you?
Did
you lose oneness with your husband?
These
are just a few struggles that I wrestled with and share with you here
and more. You are not alone!
Even
if you do not have a homestead, but believe God is leading you and
your family in that direction, this book will help prepare you
spiritually and emotionally for an amazing adventure!
Come
and join me as I share my heart, my thoughts and struggles. I have
exposed some of my sinful thoughts and actions with you and how God's
word has helped me overcome the mess.
The
homestead is a blessing. Let us find those blessings together!
